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A first swinger club visit is a unique experience. You enter a world where people display and share their pleasure with others. It may be the first time that you experience erotic activities outside of a couple context, in a private party ambiance with subtle, almost minimal lighting and seductive lounge music. What may feel a bit strange at first can soon start to feel like an exciting new adventure. 

You may ask yourself: what is my role in this? You may allow yourself to be seduced by the erotic energy and participate in activities. Or you may prefer the role of observer. Both options are totally fine. 
German swingers have a saying: Everything can, but nothing has to happen.   
           
My role is to make sure that you feel safe and are enjoying yourself. I will give you a tour of the club and (if necessary) introduce you to club etiquette. I will choose a place for us where you feel comfortable and/or have a good view of unfolding activities. I will translate (if necessary) if you would like to talk to other guests or club personnel. If you prefer I will stay by your side or let you walk around the premises on your own. 

Before first timers make up their minds about a club visit they have a need for information. Here are my answers to some of the most common questions:

    • Are swinger clubs safe? Yes. Swinger clubs depend on repeat clients and on reviews to establish and maintain a strong reputation. Their owners and managers have a vested interest in keeping their spaces safe for everyone. As such, they are a lot safer than private sex parties or civilian first dates. Also, the swinger scene in general and the vast majority of sporadic visitors are polite and respectful. 

    • Are swinger clubs clean? Yes. The clubs that I know are cleaned several times a day. They provide fresh towels, condoms and mouth wash for free. In terms of individual hygiene, I would like to add that washing hands and intimate areas before and after contact with each new partner is strongly recommended.

    • Do people wear clothes in swinger clubs? It depends. In Paris, women often wear lingerie in a club setting. Gents often stay clothed and only get more comfortable when they engage in sexual activities. In Berlin, many clubs have locker rooms and both sexes enter club spaces in lingerie and underwear. 

    • What happens to my belongings, phone, wallet, handbag, coat while I am in the club? There is a cloakroom (in Parisian clubs) as well as lockers (in Berlin clubs). 

    • Can you have sex with everyone in the club? It depends. Guests need to consent, and some people may prefer to stay for themselves or with their partner.

    • Will you have sex with me only or with others as well? Both options are possible. 

    • Do I have to engage in sexual activities? No. If you prefer, you can just stay for yourself (or with me), have a drink and observe what is going on.

    • What if I have more questions? Unfortunately my time does not allow to brief everyone for free and as extensively as desired. If you are interested in more information there are two possibilities:  

      1. If you have made up your mind to book me for a swinger club visit, I will ask you for a deposit. Once I have received your deposit, I will be happy to reply to your remaining questions.
       
      2. If you are not sure about a visit but would like more information, I would ask for a consultation fee before replying to more specific questions, for example about 
      dress code, how many women are present, good days/evenings and times for a club visit, how to ask for consent in a club, or my preferred clubs. Benefit from my 20+ years of swinging experience to get the information you feel you need. 



 
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